Post #9…

OK…this is the last straw. I give up!! I am so tired of the sexual comments guys make. Every time I turn around a male is either asking a question about sex or is making a comment towards me regarding sex. This is so fucking ridiculous, but then again should I honestly be surprised? No. Trying to meet someone is very difficult and the last thing I think about when meeting new people is whether or not I want to or am going to have sex with them or give them ‘head’. Now I understand that for the male species sex is pretty much the only thing they think about, but come on, at least ask me my name first.

Now, I’m jumping ahead a little bit so I should explain myself…

Post #8

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Of course I would love for you to continue reading my posts as they come. Sorry about the delay, just trying to get some things organized.

Until Next Time,

‘Life: It Is What It Is’

~ Purplehaze81 ~

Post #7

Here is the answer to RG’s question. Below is a list of characteristics that I look for in a potential partner. Some may overlap with each other and if that is the case, my apologies.

I think it is very important to date a few people as it allows you to figure out what you want and don’t want in a relationship. In a relationship you can experience the different emotions and the ups and downs that every relationship experiences. You will grow as an individual and if lucky, you can grow with someone else. You get the chance to give love and receive love, and sometimes you will feel hurt and pain which in the end can let you know what you will and won’t tolerate in future relationships. Relationships can also teach you how to sacrifice, but not everyone is willing to do this. It teaches you a lot about who you are as a person.

With every relationship I have had, they have all taught me something about me. I have been able to grow with some and with others I have not. In one way or another, all my relationships have ended. Some more badly then others which again teaches me something about me and life. What I have learned is that at the end of the day the only person you have left is yourself and the only person you can truly count on is yourself.

Post #6

As I mentioned in a previous post RG asked me what I look for in a potential partner. He has indicated to me that the reasoning behind his question, was to a) hear my response and b) his curiousity. Here I thought he had someone in mind for me…LOL.

As I continue to think about my response to his question, I thought I would ask you what characteristics you are looking for in a potential partner…and if you already have a partner, what characteristics do they have that seem to keep you around? Has this list changed over time? If yes, how come? Do you think it will change as you get older? What are the MOST crucial characteristics that this person MUST have as a minimum? Where do you think your idea of your ‘perfect’ partner comes from? Do you have a ‘perfect’ partner in your mind?

You answer first and when I feel ready and satisfied with my answer I will then post it. It won’t be too long…I promise

Hope this gives you something to think about and that you do reply to the questions I have asked in a comment post.

Until next time,

‘Life – It Is What It Is’

~ Purplehaze81 ~

Post #5

The validity of astrology was one of the many sections I have looked at in my science course that I am currently taking at university. It was also the start of a conversation that I had with my best friend yesterday, who I will refer to for the time being as –> RG

I have always wondered about astrology and its connection to my life. I would not say that I am a believer but I would also not say that I am a skeptic. I am more a neutral person. However, one idea that came up in my science class was the notion around how we take astrology’s claims and ‘fit’ them into our lives and make sense of them by doing so. When I spoke about this to RG he did not completely agree with me on this and threw a book on the table that I was sitting at. The book was all about his astrological sign Scorpio for the months of Jan, Feb and Mar. Now, RG and I have been friends for just over a decade now so I can honestly and 100% say that I know him pretty well and I don’t think he would disagree with me on that statement.

Anyways, I began to read the book and WOW I was blown away. This book was describing him as if it was written about him. I wanted to swallow my words but instead I thought for a moment. He was as shocked as I was. I was now very curious to see how accurate my book would be and what it would say. Needless to say, on my way to work today I stopped off at Shoppers to see if I could get a hold of one. Nope…that didn’t happen and the guy at the checkout gave me a really weird look…but whatever. So I am still curious and now on the hunt.

Then I remembered that I had my lifepath number. This is a number that you get when you add up all the numbers in your birth date, so for example my lifepath number is 7 because I was born on March 30, 1981 and to get my lifepath number you go like this: March = 3 then 3 + 0 + 1 + 9 + 8 + 1 = 25 = 2 + 5 = 7

I got this from the movie Number 23 –> excellent movie BTW

If you are curious about what your number means go to: http://www.astrology-numerology.com/num-lifepath.html

The Life Path 7 suggests that you entered this plane with a gift for investigation, analysis, and keen observation. You are a thinker of the first order. You evaluate situations very quickly, and with amazing accuracy. As a result, you are thorough and complete in your work, the perfectionist who expects everyone else to meet a high standard of performance, too. I agree and disagree with this paragraph.

A Life Path 7 person is a peaceful and affectionate soul. But you guard your connection to people carefully. It’s easy for you to detect deception and recognize insincere people, and you avoid them. You aren’t one to have a wide circle of friends, but once you accept someone as a friend, it’s for life. It’s as if you must get to know someone a lot better before you allow the wall surrounding you to be penetrated. Chances are you are a very charming and refined individual with great poise and a quick wit. Nonetheless, there is an exclusiveness about you. You probably aren’t a very social person. Your reserve is often taken to be aloofness, but actually, it’s not that at all. It is merely a cover up for your basic feeling of insecurity. There’s no rush, It takes time for you to warm up to new friends. Clubs and organizations hold little interest for you; you are not a joiner. This sounds very much like me.

You actually like being alone and away from the hustle and bustle of modern life. In many ways, you would have fit in better in much earlier times when the pace of life was less hectic. You need a good deal of quiet time to be with your own inner thoughts and dreams. You dislike crowds, noise, distractions, and confusion. Agreed.

The overwhelming strength of the number 7 is reflected in the depth of thinking that is shown; you will garner knowledge from practically every source that you find. Intellectual, scientific, and studious, you don’t accept a premise until you have dissected the subject and arrived at your own independent conclusion. This paragraph I would agree with as I am very much a thinker. I try to take in as much as possible from every aspect and I adsorb the info.

This is a very spiritual number and it often denotes a sort of spiritual wisdom that becomes apparent at a fairly early age. A built in inner guide providing a strong sense of intuition may set you up as being a law unto yourself. Whatever spiritual position you take, whether traditional or bizarre, you will cling to it with fervor. Once you have decided an issue, it is almost impossible to get you to revisit the question. Adaptability is not your style, and change for you is a rarity. I would disagree with this above section as I am very adaptable and love change. I am not overly spiritual however.

You rely heavily on your experiences and your intuition, rather than accepting advice from someone. Your hunches usually prove to be very accurate, and knowing this, you follow the directions they seem to guide.

In the most negative use of the 7 energies, you can become very pessimistic, lackadaisical, quarrelsome, and secretive. A Life Path 7 individual who is not living life fully and gaining through experiences, is a hard person to live with because of a series lack of consideration of others. There is such a negative attitude. Indeed, operating on the negative side of the 7 can produce a very selfish and spoiled individual and living with one can be a challenge. This may be why some 7s actually prefer living alone. If you have any of the negative traits they are very difficult to get rid of because you tend to feel that the world really does owe you a living or that in some way you are not being fairly treated.

Fortunately, the negative 7 is not the typical 7, at least not without some mitigating positive traits. This number is one that seems to have some major shifts from highs to lows. Stability in feelings may be elusive for you.

So there you have it….what do you think?

RG also asked me a very interesting question while I was with him and I told him that I would put my response into a post. That post is currently under construction and will be done shortly. The question was…

“What do I look for in a potential partner?”

Until next time,

‘Life – It Is What It Is’

~ Purplehaze81 ~