Post #21

Perusing around WordPress.com I came across a post called Love is Selfish.

I read majority of the post and was just floored with the content and quickly wanted to link it for you. I would highly recommend you to check it out. Very interesting!!!!

Post # 20 (I think)

I received a gift bag on my birthday from a co-worker. I open the bag and take out a bottle of red wine. First thought was <I don’t drink wine>, but was thankful anyway. She said that there is another surprise in the bag. I pull out a fairly thick book and turn to read the cover, “The Last Year of Being Single” by Sarah Tucker. <Hrmmm….this could be interesting>

Anyways, a couple days later I decide I am going to begin the book and see where this could lead. At first, I wasn’t huge on it as the author is British and writes like they speak and it was not that it was complicated but just different. I decided to keep going. I finished the book in about one week, which is so amazing for me since I am not an avid reader and I usually start multiple books at once, finishing maybe one or two over a course of a few months. This was probably a record for me, so that tells me how good the book was. I would recommend to any female. It is very down-to-earth and quite realistic in terms of relationships, marriage, affairs, life and male and female differences.

check out the site!

Until Next Time,

‘Life – It Is What It Is’

~ Purplehaze81 ~

Post #19 (2 of 2)

Continued from another post..please read Hell Date (1 of 2) before proceeding…

So where was I…oh yes…

Dinner…

Once out of Long & McQuade we get into my car again. I picked up my cell phone that I had forgotten and noticed that I had a missed text message. I open my phone to see who it was and Jeff remarks “Who is that? Your boyfriend?” I reply with a smart “Ummmm, No!” and begin typing a message back. As I am typing this guy next to me grabs my phone and begins reading my message and says “Are you talking about me?” I take my phone back, close it without finishing my message and look at him with dumbfounded eyes and reply “No”. I take note of the behaviour one more time and I have now completing shut off the idea that I would ever see this guy again. But, I decide to continue the date. Why? No idea.

I reverse out of the parking spot and he asks if I want to go get something to eat. I said that would be nice and he asks what I want to eat. I mention that I saw an East Side Mario’s and he quickly responds that he was not planning on spending that much on dinner. I quickly rebuttal that and say that I didn’t expect for him to pay for me. He says that he feels like a sub, which I say that I don’t feel like that. I said I am going to drive until we can agree on something. I begin to drive in a direction I am not sure about as I have never been in this area before and I tell him this. He motions for me to go right and I do.

Post #18

Below are 28 questions that were asked on Facebook and I copied and pasted into a post, just for fun. Enjoy, copy and paste if you can/want.

28 girl questions.
Answer them with truth:

What color is your bra today?
not wearing one

Do you straighten your hair?
Nope, don’t need to, my hair is so fucking straight already

Do you worry about the size of your boobs?
Again Nope, I like my girls and have had no complaints thus far

The posts in this category discuss my recent experiences with online dating sites. The blogs here are in a particular order so please read the date the blog was written and read accordingly. It makes much more sense if you do this.

Thanks for reading!

~ Purplehaze81

Post #15 (1 of 2)

LOL…yes you read the title right! I am going to write in this post about the ‘hell date’ that I went on in March. I have been meaning to write about this for quite some time but like I mentioned in a previous post, I had school and my exam which of course takes precedence over my postings. But now with school done, I can now take the time and tell you exactly what happened in my own words.

How it began…

So like numerous posts before this one I had mentioned my recent activity on single dating websites. Well, plenty of fish was the site I was frequenting most at this time and I received a message from a guy by the name of Jeff. I checked out his profile and <nodding> he was cute and had some characteristics that I am interested in. So I messaged him back. We sent messages back and forth for a day or so and then he added me to his MSN list of contacts. We talked for about another day or so and I noticed that the majority of the conversations were one sided (my side of course) and he really wasn’t giving me much to go with so we ended up not communicating much after the second day, so I deleted him from my MSN account. That ended that wonderful online love affair….lol…NOT!

Anyways, on March 15th I had just got home from being out with my mom and I was going to do some school work. I logged on to MSN and almost instantly I get a message and I have no clue who this person is. So I asked and he says that it is Jeff and that we had spoken a while ago from POF (plenty of fish). I remembered him but was not going to really converse with him as I thought how wonderful our previous conversations had been, but said ‘hello’ back to him anyways. He asked what I was doing and so I told him my plans. He sounded a little disappointed with my response and asked if I would like to get together and go for a nature walk and grab a coffee. I thought about it and replied that I don’t drink coffee. He responded and asked if I wanted to get together. I looked outside and it was gorgeous out and a nature walk would be nice. I also remembered him being cute so I thought well why not, my social life is more important than school right now….lol.

So I said ok. He replied back saying that he believes that the park close to his house closes at 5 pm so if we were going to go we should get ready. It was now coming on 2:30 pm. I told him I would need about an hour to get ready. He asked if I could come get him in Thornhill and then we can go to the park. I live in Mississauga, 30 minutes away from Thornhill. I of course thought, okay, no problem. I like to drive anyways.

The Phone Call…

Post #14

Went out last night to my best friend’s place. Just him, his fiancee and me. I am just now getting to know more about his wife-to-be and I am liking her more and more with each meeting. I am glad he has decided to let us mingle a little more and hope it continues.

Anyways…the main reason for my post is what happened as the night went on…

At one point in the evening my friend and his bride to be asked me if I wanted to smoke a joint with them. My first thought was “Ummm, No!” but then I thought about it a little more and concluded that my initial reaction was due to my past experiences and I wanted to leave those in the past. I thought again, and about the company I was in and became a little more comfortable with the environment. You see it has been over 7 years for me since I smoked up and I was never big on the idea anyway. However, the real deciding factor was who I was with. This friend and I have been best friends for like ever and I don’t think I would want to do it with anyone but him as I feel very safe in his company. So, I thought, “well why not, let’s see if it affects you the same way as it did way back then.” Yep, it did! I so tried to contain myself as we all sat there on the couch. I mean, weed for some reason, makes me become a giggling girly…LOL. I can laugh and do laugh at anything and will continue to laugh at whatever made me laugh in the first place for hours. Needless to say, there were bouts of laughter and I tried very hard to remain composed which for the most part I was, which was good <thumbs up> I didn’t want to give my friends the wrong impression. Now, normally I also become quite paranoid and at one point during the evening my best friend got up and went towards the window, I started getting a little unsure but he was just grabbing a blanket but my anxiety started up but slowly disappeared. I enjoyed the relaxing feeling that came with the drug but for some reason always feel like I shouldn’t be doing or feeling this way. I guess it is my paranoia. Anyways, my biggest question I have asked myself since this morning was…would I do it again? I am not 100% fixed on my answer and will have to think about it some more, but I am more open to the thought of doing it again, so that tells me something.

Will keep you updated….

Until Next Time,

‘Life – It Is What It Is’

~ Purplehaze81 ~